My English gay friend

When I was a child I remember not having a lot on my mind regarding what was right or wrong. Eventually you form your own thoughts as you grow up but most of those thoughts are driven mostly not by the way you see the world by the way the world is shown to you.

I was kissing boys and girls at the age of 5. In the mouth. Just because I liked it. And they did too because they gave kisses back meEventually somebody told me that was not a good thing, first because "you could transmit disease" and secondly (in this case related to boys) because it was ‘not right’. I tend to accept that for several years after… Until I discover the wonders of gay porn… But that is another issue..Seriously though, the true issue was, as a teenager, I eventually stopped and thought ‘wait a minute… Where does this ‘no-boy-kissing’ rolecomes from?’. I had to go back to my memories to understand why this feeling that I felt so right made me feel so guilty.Somebody said it was wrong. Somebody was loudly speaking what was approved by the standard society.
That was also when I stopped feeling bad for these thoughts and decided to ‘’. Because in
my head, everything was fine. I like boys, so what? What is the issue? Is no one else’s nosiness but mine. And that was also when everyone around me started acting strange because I did not ‘act normal’. I was angry about this. Why did I have to explain to everyone why I like boys? You explain to me, why you like girls?‘But that is the norm comeing out would say. What norm? From where? 'It is just natural for a boy to like a girl' they would say. 'It is just natural for me to like boys' I would reply.So to everyone of them I would say to go online and search about it. Males have been sleeping with each other since before the first monkey decided to stand on two feet. The Greeks did it, The romans did it… We follow these two cultures as two great examples in politics and philosophy and yet we close our eyes to some other particularities.

Recently a poll showed that British young boys and girls did not consider themselves neither homosexual nor heterosexual. How's that for mind blowing questions?When I read that Miley Cyrus was open about being pansexual I thought: 'Good for her!'. And for everyone else as well. Being pansexual means, as she stated, "open to every single thingthat is consenting and doesn’t involve an animal and everyone is of age. Everything that’s legal, I’m down with. Yo, I’m down with any adult — anyone over the age of 18 who is down to love me. I don’t relate to being boy or girl, and I don’t have to have my partner relate to boy or girl".Labels are a necessary mean for definition so I guess it is time for some new ones. It is time for some sexual openness. It is time for everyone to sit down and think about this for once and understand that sexual identification and 'being natural' has nothing to do with choice.